What’s Love Got to Do With It?

Imagine for just one moment a world in which the lopsided gender power imbalance that existed in the sexual marketplace had somehow been suddenly reversed and you now had your pick of females clamoring for your attention. One of those females happens to be an independently wealthy CFO for a multinational firm. If you marry her and have children you will almost surely walk away with 10 million dollars in the event of a divorce. Its the BBW woman pictured on the left.

Inner Game vs Dark Game

As human beings, we naturally want to take the path of least resistance whenever possible. However, in our quest to eliminate hardships from just about everything imaginable in our daily lives, we have eliminated the very thing which helps to build a sense of inner as well as outer strength. Though walking or riding a bike will increase the time it takes to get to a particular destination, it’s an essential physical activity which helps keep our muscles moving, get’s fresh air in our lungs, and keeps our heart healthy. Inner Game is the equivalent of physical activity which takes you to your destination while Dark Game is the shortcut equivalent of taking a car.

Mother’s Day Catastrophe

There was an urgency in the ringing doorbell at the front door. Its was a staccato ring one right after the other and then a succession of knocks. Richard didn’t let the ringing and knocking phase him one bit as he sat comforting his wife of 32 years as she lay in bed crying over the news that their son, Ken, had crashed his car into a building in an apparent suicide attempt.

Athol Kay: Giving Men False Hope?

For those of you unfamiliar with Athol Kay, he began blogging about how men can drastically improve their sex lives with their wives by deploying Game stratagems. He has become highly successful at it with a book that’s sold enough copies for him to quit his job and to his credit he has what appears to be a rock solid marriage as a testament to his skills. Athol’s exhaustive exercises, which are fixated upon igniting desire within a wife who has clearly demonstrated she does not desire her husband, begs the question: even if a few men are successful devoting such an inordinate amount of time to one woman is it giving the vast majority of men false hope?

The Abyss that is Game

Game of Thrones, a HBO original drama that embodies Game in every scene and word spoken by the characters, has ended and here I sit long after the on demand program has gone off contemplating the deeper philosophical implications. As the cold wind blows against a window in a room dimly lighted by the on demand menu on the TV screen, I stared into the darkness of Game. It suddenly occurred to me Game is the abyss.

Why Women Crave Misogynists – Epoch Triumvirate

As you scan this page and your eyes inevitably fixate on the eyes of the model at the left, realize that you are staring into the souls of all the women that comprise her genetic line. Staring into those eyes is a journey through anthropological time which takes you through 3 major events, Epoch Triumvirate, ushered in by men who were thus sought after for reproductive purposes because of their proven survival traits.

Women Crave Misogynistic Men

A craving is defined as an intense consuming desire. In this society which has plenty of the basic necessities to live, most cravings are for those things which we don’t need and some of those cravings are not healthy. All the information available at our fingertips about how some of these cravings are bad for us only makes us yearn more for the craving. Hatred of the cravings which haunt us in the shadows of our minds only fuels our desire for it even more. Women crave misogynistic men even as they hash out that all too common blog posting about the evils of misogyny.

The Idiocy of Low Earth Orbit Ambitions

The United States marked the end of an era in the space age by officially retiring the Space Shuttle fleet with a flyover of the nation’s capital. Crowds across the Washington D.C. area from the U.S. Capital to the Lincoln Memorial looked upward as the shuttle Discovery, perched atop a Boeing 747, roared through the afternoon sky. It should come as no surprise that America has almost nothing to show for its investment in dollars as well as lives lost on its sojourns into low earth orbit. That’s all NASA wanted out of its fleet and that’s all it got. Today the U.S. has no ready to deploy mechanism for putting humans into space.

Female Selection Created Homo Sapiens

The first homo sapien to emerge from the womb of our hominid predecessors was the first modern human to survive to see the next day without being mercilessly subjected to the selection pressures of infanticide. This new species survived the rigors of his environment that natural selection had chosen for him. Finally, a female hominid felt some sort of attraction to what must have been at the time a combination of physical (hairlessness) and behavioral oddities (intelligence). Rinse and repeat a few thousand times over the course of tens upon tens of thousands of years and you have a new species: Homo sapiens.

Salon Writer’s One Night Stand With Porn Actor

Tracy Clark-Flory, staff writer for the sex column of Salon.com, recently wrote a column where she half heartedly brags about her spontaneous leap at the opportunity to sleep with her favorite porn actor. Though her duplicity seems obvious as she expresses her regret towards the end of the article, and though her attempts at evoking the sympathy of her readers is enough to arouse the suspicions of any Game aware man, this post will reframe from judging her. There will be plenty of bloggers who will do that. Instead her actions will be objectively analyzed through gamenomics.

Gamenomics – Keeping A Girl Is Like Keeping A Job

The previous post introduced gamenomics as a way of understanding the initial courtship process. This post shall examine the gamenomic equivalent of retaining the job; relationship management. The popular misconception that once you have secured an exclusive relationship you can let your guard down perishes when put to the simple test of gamenomics.

Gamenomics – Job, Girl, & Game, Its All The Same

Anyone who has had to earn a paycheck has had to grapple with the abyss that is the labor market. We stare blindly into that abyss and repeatedly toss our resumes along with our salary requests into the darkness without receiving any response to our entreaties. Despite our best efforts, the void never seems to give way and the darkness grows only darker. Then when we least expect it, the abyss stares back. Finally, we’ve been validated. Little do we realize in our vulnerable state that we’ve also been Gamed. How can we as objectively as possible discern our situation and stymie our rival’s attempts at Gaming us?

What is Game? : A Comprehensive Definition

If you were to google “Game” you would come up with a multitude of definitions and none of them would be a fits all phrase that describes the power plays inherent within any competitive system. It must describe all of these systems while being concise and to the point. It should not be limited to one genre of systems reflecting the tunnel vision of those who can’t see beyond their own limited scope of experiences. It should be concise as well as cover all possible applications of its use. JBAMAI has come up with the definitive definition of Game:

Epic Fail : Calling Your Woman Boss

Lost over at blog Dating On The Move had a post which touches on a remarkable paradigm that  JBAMAI will cover in depth in the near future. That paradigm is the congruence between the labor market and the dating market as well as the parallel congruence between employer/employee and female/male in a relationship. The irony in all this is that even though females hold the power of choice the same way a company decides who gets hired, women overall still prefer a submissive role in relationships. The key to understanding this dynamic is to realize that companies need lower level bottom rung employees to provide production of goods and services just like women need a provider for emotional and financial support.

Invincible Openers : Clothing Conversation Starter

Psychologist Dr. Jennifer Baumgartner has just published a book entitled You Are What You Wear: What Your Clothes Reveal About You. Before you brush it off as another fluff book that couldn’t possibly help you communicate with the opposite sex, take time to read the link and you’ll find that its likely her in-depth study may reveal a thing or two about an individual woman you initially meet. If it gives you a way to start a conversation that leads to more, it’s worthy of your time as a man.